• MJ

Balancing Discretion with Whips, Chains, and High-Heels

Updated: Jun 27, 2021

A while back I was asked to be a guest on a podcast, Logically Emotional. The concept pitched was to have a Professional Dominatrix on and share what life is like for a woman in that profession. Hmmmm, that sounds like an interesting concept.


As we (My lifestyle slave and myself) drove to the recording studio, I grew nervous. This is rare. I have sessions with wealthy, powerful men and I don't become nervous, I have a level of confidence that many find off putting. Surprise, surprise. I discovered while butterflies tickled my stomach, that the challenge this time was not knowing the questions that would be asked. Unknown situations don't bother me but unknown topics of conversation, that's where the fear is. I am not an island, I have a family, my slave has business associates, and I didn't want anything to accidentally be said that would negatively effect those I love.


Living the life of a professional dominatrix is interesting and when clients ask if I enjoy my work I tell them; "I wouldn't do it if I didn’t. I don’t do this for the money, I do it because I like it and I’m really good at it." Kink and fetish flow from me as casually as shoe shopping. That said, not everyone in my universe wants that spot light so learning to balance my comfort level with what is appropriate for those I love is a skill, sometimes I'm good at it and sometimes I suck. So; even this pro Domme get's nervous from time to time.


To my family that I adore; I'm sorry for when I have embarrassed you. You all are amazing to have my back and cheer me on in this unorthodox lifestyle we live. You and your support give me the platform to shine.


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